Our sweet Jenny is now a year and a half old!
Her development amazes us each day. She lets us know when she is hungry, wanting milk, and when she is finished doing something. She'll tell us when she'd like to be picked up or put down, too. She can "feed" her animals, put her toys and books away, understands hot and cold, is able to say I Love You in Sign and knows the appropriate time to use it. She can communicate "milk" in Chinese, English and Sign! She brushes her teeth--somewhat, she chews on the toothbrush a lot (Loves that minty fresh flavor!)--she scribbles with crayons, but makes sure she has her coloring mat in place first! She's good at using please and thank you and so many other incredible things!
I love that she is full of curiosity. She recently discovered these tiny magnet "men" we have, and loves to discover all of the things around the house that they stick to!
She participated in her first Hanukkah Blessings and lighting of the menorah, and she received her first Hanukkah gifts from Zayde, too!
Friday Jenny Mei enjoyed latkes with her cousin and aunts and uncle. Saturday she spent the day with her New Jersey cousins, aunt and uncles, then came home for her first Christmas Eve feast with Mommy, Daddy and Grandmommy! Sunday Jenny Mei spent the morning (all morning!) ripping open all of her Christmas presents from under the tree! The wrapping paper was a hit as were the many gifts from friends and family! We had a festive and fun day with new traditions and old, like celebrating a Jewish Christmas by having Chinese food for dinner, although this year we went Thai instead! Tante Sheilah joined us as usual!
There's nothing like the holidays with children! Their excitement and joy brings out the kid in all of us!
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Four Months
Four months ago today we met Jenny. She was a scared, snot nosed, itching, crying, not yet crawling, little girl with crazy spiky hair and an independent streak as wide as the South China Sea. Six years of waiting and repeated visits to various police precincts to get fingerprinted (Fingerprints don't change, but apparently they expire.) culminated in us meeting our daughter for the first time, our Journey to Jenny ending, and transitioning to our Journey with Jenny.
Today she is a happy, walking & occasionally whining, talking, dancing, little dynamo, with a keen sense of humor who is learning and growing so fast it makes my head spin!! I leave for work in the morning, and I come home to her spouting new words. We, well mostly Kay really, taught, and continue to teach her, sign language, and it has really helped her communicate. As she learns words to go with her signs, she uses them both together. And when she uses words and is understood, she laughs with glee!!
Just last week, for the first time, I received the greeting all Daddys want. Jenny running towards me, squealing, arms extended upward to welcome me home!! Awesome!!!
I also made the mistake some time back of teaching her the old "extend an object towards someone who wants it, wait for them to reach, then pull it back" trick. She got the joke almost immediately. And she now uses it every chance she gets. On me. And it works every time. It is worth the humiliation of being shown no respect by a toddler, just to see her smile and hear her laugh!!
It has been a fantastic four months, with Jenny meeting many friends and relatives, and seemingly enjoying all of the new people, and them surely enjoying her. And we cannot wait for what tomorrow brings!
And the outpouring of interest from so many people has been fantastic!! What is really amazing to us is all of you that have followed the blog. It is really fun getting notes from people, both known and new to us, who mention that they have followed our journey via this. Getting feedback is great in that it motivates us to write more often, so thank you all for letting us know.
Happy holidays!!!
Labels:
Adoption,
China Adoption,
Parenting
Location:
New York, NY, USA
Friday, October 7, 2011
Toddler Time
Life has changed drastically! We now have a toddler in the house!
She is still a bit uneasy, but that doesn't stop her! She looks a little like Frankenstein with her arms out straight in front of her for balance. When she sees another wee person in the park, she does her best Frankenstein impression by wobbling up to them, arms stretched and making some loud sound out of her mouth--the wee person usually clings on to the caretaker in fright! If I put some work boots on her, paint her face green and attach some bolts to her head, we are ready for Halloween!!
She rarely crawls anymore, on occasion if she is tired. She is in to everything, of course! So we may not procrastinate any longer--the cabinets, doors, and other child-proofing things must be done!! Our adult friendly apartment will soon change--all remnants of adult, child-free living will
cease to exist. Wine bottles, pictures, knick-knacks, candles, treasures...all out of sight. What was once a lovely home will soon become Kidville--empty cardboard boxes to play with, stuffed animals everywhere, paper towel tubes as musical instruments, plastic toys in every corner, children's books chewed and drooled on, things that rattle, toot and whirl, tupperware containers to open and close, old magazines to tear up, cabinets that even adults can't open, padding on every corner of the apartment, outlets covered, toilet seats locked, plants given away....
Dan has joked about emptying a room, putting padding floor-to-ceiling and calling it a day! Dare I say institution?!!
She has a new toy--a shopping cart! She may not "go shopping" without her purse, though, which is too cute!
She takes the cart all over the apartment and "shops" for things to put in it!
Jenny Mei enjoyed her first Rosh Hashana with family! We had a delicious meal and a lot of fun playing with her Zayde, aunt, uncle and cousins!
Zayde had some quality bonding time with the princess. He even read some books with her. She has a new favorite...
I spend my time these days chasing after Jenny Mei, cleaning up the food she has flung onto the floor, singing songs sometimes 5 or 6 times in a row, talking in a higher pitch than I prefer, showering with a stroller parked next to the tub (with a baby strapped in it!), and drinking whole milk! Life has definitely changed.
And I wouldn't change a thing!
She is still a bit uneasy, but that doesn't stop her! She looks a little like Frankenstein with her arms out straight in front of her for balance. When she sees another wee person in the park, she does her best Frankenstein impression by wobbling up to them, arms stretched and making some loud sound out of her mouth--the wee person usually clings on to the caretaker in fright! If I put some work boots on her, paint her face green and attach some bolts to her head, we are ready for Halloween!!
She rarely crawls anymore, on occasion if she is tired. She is in to everything, of course! So we may not procrastinate any longer--the cabinets, doors, and other child-proofing things must be done!! Our adult friendly apartment will soon change--all remnants of adult, child-free living will
cease to exist. Wine bottles, pictures, knick-knacks, candles, treasures...all out of sight. What was once a lovely home will soon become Kidville--empty cardboard boxes to play with, stuffed animals everywhere, paper towel tubes as musical instruments, plastic toys in every corner, children's books chewed and drooled on, things that rattle, toot and whirl, tupperware containers to open and close, old magazines to tear up, cabinets that even adults can't open, padding on every corner of the apartment, outlets covered, toilet seats locked, plants given away....
Dan has joked about emptying a room, putting padding floor-to-ceiling and calling it a day! Dare I say institution?!!
She has a new toy--a shopping cart! She may not "go shopping" without her purse, though, which is too cute!
She takes the cart all over the apartment and "shops" for things to put in it!
Jenny Mei enjoyed her first Rosh Hashana with family! We had a delicious meal and a lot of fun playing with her Zayde, aunt, uncle and cousins!
Zayde had some quality bonding time with the princess. He even read some books with her. She has a new favorite...
And I wouldn't change a thing!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Oh No, Not Cantaloupe!
I was so happy to see that my beautiful daughter had no food issues! In China she ate everything we gave her...peas, carrots, pork buns, eggs, watermelon, oatmeal, shrimp, potatoes, cheerios, sweet potato...everything!
Now that we are home she has had similar eating habits. We try something new every day or so, and she definitely has some likes and dislikes. She likes ham. She dislikes peaches. She likes turkey, but dislikes turkey meatballs. Her favorite food, however, is cantaloupe! She eats it by the handful! She always wants more, more, MORE!
Last night proved to be a whole new Jenny Mei. Nothing was adequate for her dinner. Little Miss Manners decided to throw all that was put in front of her on the floor. All the foods that she likes--tossed to the floor. Even the beloved cantaloupe!
Now what?!
Has my daughter turned into a picky eater? Is she just being a toddler? What can I feed her if even her favorites do not pass? Am I supposed to offer more choices? No pasta, peas, carrots, chicken or cantaloupe?! These are staples--Yikes!
One food she has recently discovered is the apple!
Jenny Mei had a visitor today who brought her a new toy--a little purse! Jenny Mei loves it! She immediately put it on her arm and swung it about like it was a Chanel bag filled with real treasures!! We played with the cell phone, the compact and the coin purse all evening! Thank you to Aunt Beverly!
Now that we are home she has had similar eating habits. We try something new every day or so, and she definitely has some likes and dislikes. She likes ham. She dislikes peaches. She likes turkey, but dislikes turkey meatballs. Her favorite food, however, is cantaloupe! She eats it by the handful! She always wants more, more, MORE!
Last night proved to be a whole new Jenny Mei. Nothing was adequate for her dinner. Little Miss Manners decided to throw all that was put in front of her on the floor. All the foods that she likes--tossed to the floor. Even the beloved cantaloupe!
Now what?!
Has my daughter turned into a picky eater? Is she just being a toddler? What can I feed her if even her favorites do not pass? Am I supposed to offer more choices? No pasta, peas, carrots, chicken or cantaloupe?! These are staples--Yikes!
One food she has recently discovered is the apple!
Jenny Mei had a visitor today who brought her a new toy--a little purse! Jenny Mei loves it! She immediately put it on her arm and swung it about like it was a Chanel bag filled with real treasures!! We played with the cell phone, the compact and the coin purse all evening! Thank you to Aunt Beverly!
Saturday, September 3, 2011
Wheels on the Bus
go round and round, round and round, round and round....
I never knew I could have so much fun making up verses to this silly *and monotonous)) kids' song!
Well, at least until she's old enough to understand what I've been adding...!!
Tomorrow will be 3 weeks with our daughter! She continues to amaze us! She is very energetic and already into everything! She pulls herself up, can walk with help or by pulling herself along the couch, feeds herself and eats many new foods like spinach and broccoli, loves to dance and sing, and enjoys walks in her stroller! Bath time is her favorite time of day. She cannot get enough of playing in the tub with her tub toys! And she loves to get wrapped up in her fluffy bunny towel!
Jenny Mei now has a Pack & Play yard. Well, more like a prison to her. We hope it becomes a quiet place for her to play at those certain times when we are tending to something else in the room--like reading the directions for setting up her booster seat. Honestly, the directions were confusing--and embarrassing to admit!! Both of us were needed to decipher it...! We plopped her in the pay yard for a few minutes. JMei was not happy about that. Not at all. We'll keep trying.
The 5th tooth has erupted!! This means that everything, EVERYTHING, goes into Jmei's mouth! I believe we have 17 more teeth to go...
I'm sure I could think about a song for that!
I never knew I could have so much fun making up verses to this silly *and monotonous)) kids' song!
Well, at least until she's old enough to understand what I've been adding...!!
Tomorrow will be 3 weeks with our daughter! She continues to amaze us! She is very energetic and already into everything! She pulls herself up, can walk with help or by pulling herself along the couch, feeds herself and eats many new foods like spinach and broccoli, loves to dance and sing, and enjoys walks in her stroller! Bath time is her favorite time of day. She cannot get enough of playing in the tub with her tub toys! And she loves to get wrapped up in her fluffy bunny towel!
Jenny Mei now has a Pack & Play yard. Well, more like a prison to her. We hope it becomes a quiet place for her to play at those certain times when we are tending to something else in the room--like reading the directions for setting up her booster seat. Honestly, the directions were confusing--and embarrassing to admit!! Both of us were needed to decipher it...! We plopped her in the pay yard for a few minutes. JMei was not happy about that. Not at all. We'll keep trying.
The 5th tooth has erupted!! This means that everything, EVERYTHING, goes into Jmei's mouth! I believe we have 17 more teeth to go...
I'm sure I could think about a song for that!
Friday, August 26, 2011
Home Sweet Home
It is really unbelievable. We're home, finally.
I can't help but ask myself, "Is this real or am I dreaming?" The long wait is over, and I am a mom. We are a family. One happy family!
The adventure in China was memorable on so many levels. I mean, we went to the Great Wall! And the Forbidden City! We experienced so many wonderful cultural things on our visit. AND WE GOT A BABY!! Our beautiful star!
That being said, I am so glad to be home! Dan compares our visit to the Bachelorette/Bachelor shows--being in China with our daughter was not real life! Now that we are home, reality sets in, routines begin, and our bonds strengthen.
The trip back to the states was pretty intense Thank goodness I booked us on a on-stop flight!! The people around us did not seem to mind JMei's occasional squeals--they were mostly squeals of excitement. I think they were just happy that she was not acting like the two boys across from us that terrorized everyone around them, especially the people sitting in front of them. The backs of their seats were used as kick boards...for hours!! And the screeching was non-stop!!
Back to JMei...she was definitely squirmy! She was up and active. Dan walked with her up and down the aisle, up and down, up and down...! The extra seat was worth every penny! We were able to make a place for her to sleep, play...and eat! 7 bottles, some Cheerios, some Chinese wan wan snacks and watermelon!
Once landed, the immigration processing took no time at all. We were through with that, customs and baggage claim in under an hour and on our way home.
Her Aunt S. made her this special onesie--and I packed it especially for her return home! It reads, "Yankee Doodle Baby"--perfect for her immediate US citizenship once she landed in the US!
JMei had her first visitors yesterday on her first full day in NYC! She had a wonderful time playing, singing and walking with her new friends, Auntie Jo-Jo and Auntie AP! Actually, I am not sure who had more fun, the grown-ups or baby! I think she wore them out!!
She is getting adjusted to life here and the time zone. She had me up at 3 am on her first night back...and didn't go to bed until 1 am last night. i thought for sure she'd be tuckered out after all the fun she had...boy, was I mistaken!!
We've nicknamed her "Jackpot" for right now. We really feel as though we hit it with her! She is so engaging, so social, so talkative, and so happy! I feel like the wealthiest person on Earth!! She is an absolute treasure!
And so it goes...my life as a parent is just beginning. I look forward to all the diaper changing, snot wiping, drool catching, and sleepless nights...it is just the greatest time ever!
I can't help but ask myself, "Is this real or am I dreaming?" The long wait is over, and I am a mom. We are a family. One happy family!
The adventure in China was memorable on so many levels. I mean, we went to the Great Wall! And the Forbidden City! We experienced so many wonderful cultural things on our visit. AND WE GOT A BABY!! Our beautiful star!
That being said, I am so glad to be home! Dan compares our visit to the Bachelorette/Bachelor shows--being in China with our daughter was not real life! Now that we are home, reality sets in, routines begin, and our bonds strengthen.
The trip back to the states was pretty intense Thank goodness I booked us on a on-stop flight!! The people around us did not seem to mind JMei's occasional squeals--they were mostly squeals of excitement. I think they were just happy that she was not acting like the two boys across from us that terrorized everyone around them, especially the people sitting in front of them. The backs of their seats were used as kick boards...for hours!! And the screeching was non-stop!!
Back to JMei...she was definitely squirmy! She was up and active. Dan walked with her up and down the aisle, up and down, up and down...! The extra seat was worth every penny! We were able to make a place for her to sleep, play...and eat! 7 bottles, some Cheerios, some Chinese wan wan snacks and watermelon!
Once landed, the immigration processing took no time at all. We were through with that, customs and baggage claim in under an hour and on our way home.
Her Aunt S. made her this special onesie--and I packed it especially for her return home! It reads, "Yankee Doodle Baby"--perfect for her immediate US citizenship once she landed in the US!
JMei had her first visitors yesterday on her first full day in NYC! She had a wonderful time playing, singing and walking with her new friends, Auntie Jo-Jo and Auntie AP! Actually, I am not sure who had more fun, the grown-ups or baby! I think she wore them out!!
She is getting adjusted to life here and the time zone. She had me up at 3 am on her first night back...and didn't go to bed until 1 am last night. i thought for sure she'd be tuckered out after all the fun she had...boy, was I mistaken!!
We've nicknamed her "Jackpot" for right now. We really feel as though we hit it with her! She is so engaging, so social, so talkative, and so happy! I feel like the wealthiest person on Earth!! She is an absolute treasure!
And so it goes...my life as a parent is just beginning. I look forward to all the diaper changing, snot wiping, drool catching, and sleepless nights...it is just the greatest time ever!
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Home
Long day of International travel, airports, airline food, screaming babies (mostly not ours), delays for some of our stuff, but in the end...
Home!!!
Home!!!
Labels:
Adoption,
China Adoption
Location:
New York, NY, USA
Monday, August 22, 2011
The Consulate
Today was a big day, the last of the bureaucratic requirements. Out of the hotel early to get to the US Consulate for our 8:30 am appointment to apply for JMX's US visa. They see 24 families a day, two appointments of 12 families. We were in the first group today.
This is the one thing that determines when a family can travel. An adoptive family's entire trip is planned around this appointment. The sooner you can get it, the sooner you meet your child. The sooner you meet you child, the sooner you should be able to go home as a family. Did I say this was a big day? This is a big day!
I won't bore you with the details, but things work pretty much like this. Go to consulate, get to the appropriate office with the other families, take oath, have paperwork reviewed by government clerk, and hope everything is in order. And that was pretty much how it went. We were fortunate enough to be called first, so we were finished first. The whole thing, minus waiting for the office to open took about 10 minutes. We were back at the hotel by 9:05 am.
Our guide will pick up the visa and associated documents for us tomorrow and we are off to Hong Kong by van on Tuesday afternoon. Flight back home on Wednesday.
JMX has continued to bond with both of us, and we cannot believe how fortunate we are. She and I spent playing together the past few days, and where before she was previously a bit stand offish, she now smiles and laughs, and even squeals with laughter! And aside from food, the only thing that makes her happier than me, is Kay!! And that is how it should be. Aside from the food part, but we will work on that.



Later in the day we went to a nearby park, where we were almost overcome by fumes. The adults were coughing and gagging, JMX was smiling at the funny sounds we were making. Gotta love the demeanor, but gotta work on the "big picture" view!
Aside from the fumes, the park was nice. Some water features, a few amusement park rides, some sculpture, and of course, the mistranslated warning signs.


"Don't hurt me for your pretty" equals _________?
We had dinner in the hotel steakhouse with two other families, at a big round table in a private room, and swapped stories and reflections about the past couple of weeks and what the future holds. And these people, smart, funny, warm, and determined, who endured six years of unexplained and probably unnecessary delays, who traveled across the world, who shared this experience, each now have a beautiful child and a more complete family. And these families are part of a global community that is defined by the children and what each of these children has experienced. And we are proud to be part of that community, and we look forward to the support structure that comes from that community.
Off to Hong Kong tomorrow!

This is the one thing that determines when a family can travel. An adoptive family's entire trip is planned around this appointment. The sooner you can get it, the sooner you meet your child. The sooner you meet you child, the sooner you should be able to go home as a family. Did I say this was a big day? This is a big day!
I won't bore you with the details, but things work pretty much like this. Go to consulate, get to the appropriate office with the other families, take oath, have paperwork reviewed by government clerk, and hope everything is in order. And that was pretty much how it went. We were fortunate enough to be called first, so we were finished first. The whole thing, minus waiting for the office to open took about 10 minutes. We were back at the hotel by 9:05 am.
Our guide will pick up the visa and associated documents for us tomorrow and we are off to Hong Kong by van on Tuesday afternoon. Flight back home on Wednesday.
JMX has continued to bond with both of us, and we cannot believe how fortunate we are. She and I spent playing together the past few days, and where before she was previously a bit stand offish, she now smiles and laughs, and even squeals with laughter! And aside from food, the only thing that makes her happier than me, is Kay!! And that is how it should be. Aside from the food part, but we will work on that.



Later in the day we went to a nearby park, where we were almost overcome by fumes. The adults were coughing and gagging, JMX was smiling at the funny sounds we were making. Gotta love the demeanor, but gotta work on the "big picture" view!
Aside from the fumes, the park was nice. Some water features, a few amusement park rides, some sculpture, and of course, the mistranslated warning signs.


"Don't hurt me for your pretty" equals _________?
We had dinner in the hotel steakhouse with two other families, at a big round table in a private room, and swapped stories and reflections about the past couple of weeks and what the future holds. And these people, smart, funny, warm, and determined, who endured six years of unexplained and probably unnecessary delays, who traveled across the world, who shared this experience, each now have a beautiful child and a more complete family. And these families are part of a global community that is defined by the children and what each of these children has experienced. And we are proud to be part of that community, and we look forward to the support structure that comes from that community.
Off to Hong Kong tomorrow!

Location:Renmin North Rd,Guangzhou,China
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Together Again
We said goodbye to our Nanchang guide, Helen, and flew from Nanchang to Guangzhou yesterday. After a slight delay due to weather, we had a good flight. JMX was great. She slept through nearly the entire flight and was great when she was awake. She often falls asleep after her bottle, so Kay planned it out to perfection. You can see in the picture below that she is starting to fade just before we pull away from the gate.

I started to feel more comfortable as we approached Guangzhou and we could see the city from above. Maybe it is because we live in a big city, although Nanchang is a big city by US standards. I didn't realize it until we left, but there was something about it that made me feel a bit uncomfortable. Not unsafe or anything, just uncomfortable. Maybe it was because we were separated from our group from Beijing, or that our hotel in Nanchang was off the beaten path, or something, but no matter, I was pleased to get to GZ. Big city feel, another step closer to home, back with people we had bonded with. Definitely upbeat!
The hotel in GZ (The China Hotel) is very nice, and the overall mood is so positive! In Nanchang, we were keenly aware of feeling out of place, round eyes with Chinese baby, lots of comments from locals, not speaking the language. The hotel there (The Crowne Plaza) was clearly interested in catering to large groups, which makes sense for a huge place in a non tourist city, but I felt like we were an afterthought. There were probably seven adoptive families in Nanchang.
GZ, and especially the hotel, is full of adoptive families who have united with their children over the past week, sharing stories, comparing notes, sharing experiences, and getting closer to home.
Today, we had the requisite medical exam for Jenny Mei. The families from our agency were driven to Shaiman island where the children had visa pictures taken at a small store (The store sold these very cute Chinese wine bottle covers, the same ones we get in Chinatown in NYC. They look like little Chinese outfits and make a great gift when bringing a bottle of wine to a friend's house. When we asked about the price, they told us "not too much, less than $5." We get them for 99 cents back home.) then we headed over to the clinic. The clinic was jammed full of adoptive parents and their new children, all lined up for this examination process in this sanitary smelling, cold and impersonal place. And yet it is an incredibly hopeful place, filled with these resilient children, incredible parents, a number of whom were on their second third, and fourth or more adoptions. Healthy kids, kids with special needs, younger parents, older parents, no matter. All Chinese children adopted by foreigners, and at least one adoptive parent, make their way through this place.


Jenny Mei has been dripping snot since we got her and we finally got her in front of a doctor. We were told to "give her medicine". After some clarification we understood that she should be on antibiotics. We are now working on proper measuring and hope to get her started in the AM.
Following that we got to walk around the island a bit before heading to Lucy's for lunch. Lucy's sells itself as a western restaurant, but we were not buying that. We all ordered Asian food.

Jenny Mei in the shade.

Dan and Jenny Mei in the Friendship Garden

Shaiman Island

In front of Lucy's.

Street sign.

Spiderman and Harry Potter posters inside Lucy's.

Feeding Jenny Mei.

The three of us.

JMX on a swing.

After lunch we did some shopping in the area, souvenir stuff, before heading back to the hotel to spend some time bonding as well as hanging out with other families.
All in all, a really good day. JMX gets closer to us every day and we cannot believe how lucky we are to have her. She is incredibly happy and resilient, and is never unhappy for long. She is unfazed at most everything, and interacts well with everyone. And we are SO IN LOVE WITH HER!!!! And she seems to like us, too!
More people have told us that she looks like me, and Kay and I both feel that her personality is a great fit for us. We cannot wait to get her home!!
The three of us at the waterfall at the hotel.


I started to feel more comfortable as we approached Guangzhou and we could see the city from above. Maybe it is because we live in a big city, although Nanchang is a big city by US standards. I didn't realize it until we left, but there was something about it that made me feel a bit uncomfortable. Not unsafe or anything, just uncomfortable. Maybe it was because we were separated from our group from Beijing, or that our hotel in Nanchang was off the beaten path, or something, but no matter, I was pleased to get to GZ. Big city feel, another step closer to home, back with people we had bonded with. Definitely upbeat!
The hotel in GZ (The China Hotel) is very nice, and the overall mood is so positive! In Nanchang, we were keenly aware of feeling out of place, round eyes with Chinese baby, lots of comments from locals, not speaking the language. The hotel there (The Crowne Plaza) was clearly interested in catering to large groups, which makes sense for a huge place in a non tourist city, but I felt like we were an afterthought. There were probably seven adoptive families in Nanchang.
GZ, and especially the hotel, is full of adoptive families who have united with their children over the past week, sharing stories, comparing notes, sharing experiences, and getting closer to home.
Today, we had the requisite medical exam for Jenny Mei. The families from our agency were driven to Shaiman island where the children had visa pictures taken at a small store (The store sold these very cute Chinese wine bottle covers, the same ones we get in Chinatown in NYC. They look like little Chinese outfits and make a great gift when bringing a bottle of wine to a friend's house. When we asked about the price, they told us "not too much, less than $5." We get them for 99 cents back home.) then we headed over to the clinic. The clinic was jammed full of adoptive parents and their new children, all lined up for this examination process in this sanitary smelling, cold and impersonal place. And yet it is an incredibly hopeful place, filled with these resilient children, incredible parents, a number of whom were on their second third, and fourth or more adoptions. Healthy kids, kids with special needs, younger parents, older parents, no matter. All Chinese children adopted by foreigners, and at least one adoptive parent, make their way through this place.


Jenny Mei has been dripping snot since we got her and we finally got her in front of a doctor. We were told to "give her medicine". After some clarification we understood that she should be on antibiotics. We are now working on proper measuring and hope to get her started in the AM.
Following that we got to walk around the island a bit before heading to Lucy's for lunch. Lucy's sells itself as a western restaurant, but we were not buying that. We all ordered Asian food.

Jenny Mei in the shade.

Dan and Jenny Mei in the Friendship Garden

Shaiman Island

In front of Lucy's.

Street sign.

Spiderman and Harry Potter posters inside Lucy's.

Feeding Jenny Mei.

The three of us.

JMX on a swing.

After lunch we did some shopping in the area, souvenir stuff, before heading back to the hotel to spend some time bonding as well as hanging out with other families.
All in all, a really good day. JMX gets closer to us every day and we cannot believe how lucky we are to have her. She is incredibly happy and resilient, and is never unhappy for long. She is unfazed at most everything, and interacts well with everyone. And we are SO IN LOVE WITH HER!!!! And she seems to like us, too!
More people have told us that she looks like me, and Kay and I both feel that her personality is a great fit for us. We cannot wait to get her home!!
The three of us at the waterfall at the hotel.

Location:Renmin North Rd,Guangzhou,China
Friday, August 19, 2011
Everybody Nanchang Tonight
Thursday was our last full day in Nanchang and with the temperature and humidity both high, we spent most of the daylight hours in our hotel. We left late afternoon for the pedestrian shopping area not too far from here, a department store, some general walking around, dinner, and then a dancing waters show.
We have been frustrated with the food options for lunch and dinner as the hotel buffet is expensive, repetitive, and we are not eating that much, so we were looking forward to getting out to someplace more authentic. And the other restaurants in the hotel also appear overpriced. And since the hotel is off the beaten path, we could not wander the neighborhood and visit a local place. There are none here.
The pedestrian mall area was pretty standard. The big difference, aside from that it is in China, is that in China, the concept of pedestrian appears to mean that cars and trucks are not allowed, but mopeds and bicycles are ok. Makes for a more interesting stroll, as one can imagine.



The streets are very lively with noise from cars, trucks, mopeds, music from stores, hawkers trying to attract shoppers. Our guide took us (I said took us) into an indoor market, which was interesting. Filthy, but interesting. Did not find anything we needed or wanted there.
Everywhere we go JMX gets attention. Some of it people wondering why we have a Chinese baby, but our guide has been handling that. She told us she is getting tired of the question. Obviously, this makes us wonder what people know, what they don't know, and how they feel, both about the Chinese policies that have led to people abandoning their babies, and about all the foreigners that come here to adopt those children, as well as the orphanages themselves. Do people here scrutinize these orphanages and the people who run them, or is the subject taboo? Are the people who run them good hearted public servants, or corrupt bureaucrats, or something in between?
After the market, we went into a department store in search of a sweater for JMX for the plane rides. The combination of poor selection for girls, and everything being too large did not lead to a purchase, but we did enjoy the browse, even if only for the amusing english language Chinese marketing. That's me and JMX below in front of the the world famous "Mr. Dog Family" brand display.

After that it was off to dinner, which was quite tasty. Pictures below. We had pork wrapped in eggplant, Chinese Yams, which I think we know as water chestnuts, buns with radish and hot peppers, and a noodle dish with Chinese cabbage, or bock choy. It was all very good and very cheap. It fed three of us for less than $18.




Another interesting thing about China is you can come across a sidewalk, street, or building that is undergoing repairs, with little or no safety precautions, meaning one can trip and fall quite easily, or be forced into the street to fend for one's self with the mopeds, cars, etc. And while things force pedestrians to be both cautious and creative, the drivers are clearly the most adventurous. And we have had both Chinese guides comment on NYC traffic. We have a great piece of video but it will not upload. Maybe when we get home.
From there we made a stop at a hotel for a diaper change, and then back into the van for a ride to the park for the dancing waters (Think China meets the Bellaggio, or Chinaggio, if you will). We crossed the bridge and got a nice view of Nanchang at night. The bridge lighting changed every few minutes.




We watched the light show, which goes on each night. There were a few thousand people and it seemed like a nice local event, where families could gather on a hot summer night and get some free entertainment. We stayed out past JMX's bedtime, and we were all hot, sweaty, and tired by the time the show ended around 8:30. And this is where I was snapped back to reality as far as she and I, and our bonding.
We crossed the street to meet the van for a ride back to the hotel. I carried JMX, while Kay and Helen, our guide, had the rest of our stuff. As is often the case when I took her from Kay, she was not happy. And when she is not happy, she squirms, and she hits me. I have made it a point to keep my head out of range when she tries to hit me. And when I start to walk around with her, she settles down. Well, it was late, we were all cranky, and as I was carrying her, I gave her a kiss on the head. So she did what she does, and head-butted me in the face. That little head and that short neck, with that gorgeous smile packed a heck of a wallop.
And I realized it had only been about four days since we had met. And this would take more time. Which is what Kay and I had discussed before we came to get her.
The journey continues.



We have been frustrated with the food options for lunch and dinner as the hotel buffet is expensive, repetitive, and we are not eating that much, so we were looking forward to getting out to someplace more authentic. And the other restaurants in the hotel also appear overpriced. And since the hotel is off the beaten path, we could not wander the neighborhood and visit a local place. There are none here.
The pedestrian mall area was pretty standard. The big difference, aside from that it is in China, is that in China, the concept of pedestrian appears to mean that cars and trucks are not allowed, but mopeds and bicycles are ok. Makes for a more interesting stroll, as one can imagine.



The streets are very lively with noise from cars, trucks, mopeds, music from stores, hawkers trying to attract shoppers. Our guide took us (I said took us) into an indoor market, which was interesting. Filthy, but interesting. Did not find anything we needed or wanted there.
Everywhere we go JMX gets attention. Some of it people wondering why we have a Chinese baby, but our guide has been handling that. She told us she is getting tired of the question. Obviously, this makes us wonder what people know, what they don't know, and how they feel, both about the Chinese policies that have led to people abandoning their babies, and about all the foreigners that come here to adopt those children, as well as the orphanages themselves. Do people here scrutinize these orphanages and the people who run them, or is the subject taboo? Are the people who run them good hearted public servants, or corrupt bureaucrats, or something in between?
After the market, we went into a department store in search of a sweater for JMX for the plane rides. The combination of poor selection for girls, and everything being too large did not lead to a purchase, but we did enjoy the browse, even if only for the amusing english language Chinese marketing. That's me and JMX below in front of the the world famous "Mr. Dog Family" brand display.

After that it was off to dinner, which was quite tasty. Pictures below. We had pork wrapped in eggplant, Chinese Yams, which I think we know as water chestnuts, buns with radish and hot peppers, and a noodle dish with Chinese cabbage, or bock choy. It was all very good and very cheap. It fed three of us for less than $18.




Another interesting thing about China is you can come across a sidewalk, street, or building that is undergoing repairs, with little or no safety precautions, meaning one can trip and fall quite easily, or be forced into the street to fend for one's self with the mopeds, cars, etc. And while things force pedestrians to be both cautious and creative, the drivers are clearly the most adventurous. And we have had both Chinese guides comment on NYC traffic. We have a great piece of video but it will not upload. Maybe when we get home.
From there we made a stop at a hotel for a diaper change, and then back into the van for a ride to the park for the dancing waters (Think China meets the Bellaggio, or Chinaggio, if you will). We crossed the bridge and got a nice view of Nanchang at night. The bridge lighting changed every few minutes.




We watched the light show, which goes on each night. There were a few thousand people and it seemed like a nice local event, where families could gather on a hot summer night and get some free entertainment. We stayed out past JMX's bedtime, and we were all hot, sweaty, and tired by the time the show ended around 8:30. And this is where I was snapped back to reality as far as she and I, and our bonding.
We crossed the street to meet the van for a ride back to the hotel. I carried JMX, while Kay and Helen, our guide, had the rest of our stuff. As is often the case when I took her from Kay, she was not happy. And when she is not happy, she squirms, and she hits me. I have made it a point to keep my head out of range when she tries to hit me. And when I start to walk around with her, she settles down. Well, it was late, we were all cranky, and as I was carrying her, I gave her a kiss on the head. So she did what she does, and head-butted me in the face. That little head and that short neck, with that gorgeous smile packed a heck of a wallop.
And I realized it had only been about four days since we had met. And this would take more time. Which is what Kay and I had discussed before we came to get her.
The journey continues.



Location:Nanchang, China
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